I will most likely run 33" tires and thats a whole other issue as to what to get I also might just look for smaller Rubi stock wheels for this. I do want to get flairs for better tire clearance and I want a good bumper with winch. I also want a better back bumper and tire mount (I would like the tire mount that holds extra fuel cans), I also want the LED light bar that runs the full length of the top of windshield. Some of the other things I would need to know about are just the ins and outs of stuff I have no idea about but thats why I am asking questions.
Well in your case, if you are considering rubi tires, you might not even have to spend money on a lift... Hear me out.
Like DUFF said, you can go 33s without much effort and hell, if you have the alloy 17s then you dont even need new wheels, just new tread. And in your case, since you live in NM and you dont have to worry too much about miserable weather like snow, you can go with just about any rugged tire and call it good.
I'd run duratracs, since they are a very aggressive all terrain tire bordering on mud terrain and not too expensive. You should be able to cram a nice bit of rubber in those wheel wells. These will give you fantastic on road and off road performance.
some guys run a winch on the factory bumper, others run fancy metal bumpers and that's all personal preference... whatever looks good to you! WARN seems to be the #1 recommended winch.
You might not even need a new tire MOUNT but they do have racks you can get for fuel cans. Again, the bumpers are your personal preference... go with what looks good and serves your purposes.