I don't belong to any of the local clubs around me. I have went wheeling with some of them but for the most part I really don't care to be in their clubs. There seems to be a lot of BS drama in most of them. I bought my jeep to go wheeling and while I haven't done much of anything in mine, there are a lot of mall crawlers in these clubs that hit some dirt roads every know and then and call it wheeling. Most of the JKs in these clubs are the worst of all the jeeps, its like they feel that they spent all this money on their jeeps so they dont want to mess them up. Dont get me wrong, they do some wheeling events through the year but for the most part, its a bunch of meet and greats and car shows, parades, etc. I dont mind those either, but I like wheeling too.
They also have their own "groups" and I get it, I mean I have a handful of friends that are like my family. But Ive volunteered my help and tools to fix stuff and they acted like I was only doing that to be better than them or to fit in. F that, I do it because Ive been there when nobody helped me and I had to figure crap out on my own. So if I can, I help people. However, there is also only so much I will do for free and as long as the owner of the vehicle is getting dirty with me, then my free help will go far. Ive worked on some of these group members vehicles for free just because I'm a nice guy. But when it becomes expected or I get blamed for problems I didn't create, then my attitude changes about the situation. Guess this relates back to my life in general. Ive only ever had a few true friends, the ones who were more like family. My good buddy has a key to my house, knows the code for the alarm system, the garage door, knows where my tool box key is and is more than welcome to help himself. I also have the same for his place. We both respect each others stuff though. Guess that's why we've been friends for 20 plus years. Id rather have a few dollars than a couple hundred pennies.
Ive never met anybody from the forum as of yet. I keep trying to but other stuff gets in the way and it just hasn't been good timing. I know that will change sometime and I'll get out and wheel with some of these people. I think for the most part almost everybody on here are good people and I cant wait to meet some.