Being that there's such a lack of information and that you seem to be posting up a lot of misinformation, I started to do some digging and found that Ridged went to bat for you. Although, according to their website, you were needing "$100k in less than 30 days".

http://www.rigidlife.com/grapplerjk-military-support/
This is confusing to me being that you said, and I quote,
Maybe it's just me but this kinda leaves me wondering why there was a $70k discrepancy. Also, I'd be lying if I said that it wasn't odd that a month later, the exact time you needed, you posted up a new axle for your daily driver and then supposedly spent the next to years "donating to various charities".

http://www.rigidlife.com/grapplerjk-military-support/
This is confusing to me being that you said, and I quote,
We ended up needing to pay off the house to not have to rebuild and the difference between what we had in savings was around 20k, which is what the fund was started for.
When we sold the land itself months later we spend the next two years donating to various charities until we have given back 150% ($30k) of what was given to us.
Maybe it's just me but this kinda leaves me wondering why there was a $70k discrepancy. Also, I'd be lying if I said that it wasn't odd that a month later, the exact time you needed, you posted up a new axle for your daily driver and then supposedly spent the next to years "donating to various charities".