I have 3" teraflex coils w/ bilstein 5100's on my 2-dr and the ride is very tame. The only time I ever had an ounce of complaints was when my wife was driving through Atlanta after a long weekend in Savannah GA. Needless to say I was a bit hungover so that was the only time the ride was unpleasant.
Everything is relative until you've actually ridden on different coils and shocks. Still, I do know people who prefer a stiff coil and, maybe you are one of them.