Just an update to this, I ended up going with the RC Hybrid Stubby as a temp setup. I decided to leave it up to the wife, and after view pics of a factory bumper cut to stubby with the winch plate, a stubby with the VDP endcaps, and the RC hybrid, she liked the RC hybrid. I wasnt confident that I could fit the winch plate from the bottom and get it looking good, and if I went to some sort of cap like the VDP setup, the cost difference made the RC hybrid worth the install ease.
Also picked up a vacuum pump relocation bracket to get it installed. Then the weather went to crap, so the bumper is in the kitchen...
I ended up selling my old cell phone the day before, so it was pretty much a wash. I will run that while waiting on a new Evo Pro bumper with stinger to come out, and will make the switch and sell the RC.
As far as the SmittyBuilt stuff - I see it a lot near me, and the local shops push it pretty hard. It looks decent when it doesn't rust (and not everyone has rust issues), but if I am going to spend good money on the Jeep, I am going to strive for the "better" option. For me, that is US made, and from a company that provides support. There are a ton of options available, so its pretty much pick your poison.