Try $50k+
Funny, I totally missed where I've back tracked on anything or "clearly attacked" you but hey, if you say so, it must be true

and there you have it. Because anyone who really knows me knows that I would only say good things about something I got for free.
I'm late to the conversations but from what I've read,
@FastEddie760 has EVO coil overs and added the E-Click shocks to correct what he considers crappy coils...
EVO has stated numerous times the coils that come with the coil over kits are fine for most consumers and all others need to put in the work to find the coil combination to fit their specific need, other manufacturers of coil overs have stated the same thing.
These out of the box kits are not meant for someone who plans to use their rig for more "enthusiastic" driving.
I'm half a tick off center retarded, but IMO you can't rely on a single component to be the "fix" for a set of components that need to work together to provide the outcome that you want for your rig, there is no single special sauce to fit every need.
You can buy coils relatively cheap for testing purposes or, pay to get an expert to analyze your rig and help you tune it for your needs.
I recall E-Click when they were in the testing phase, they were promoted for the overland crowd to help control the sway and shit from RV's etc... and have evolved into the lucrative off-road market, they have 3 settings, soft, medium and firm.
I suspect removing your sway bar and nothing else to replace it other than the shocks is why when you have them set to firm, the ride feels better.
The shocks are supposed to balance the equation, not remove components that are critical to the overall equation.
Really sounds like you need to reach out to E-Click and see what they have to offer as a solution to your needs.