Ya the fox shocks was an initial but after just a few replies I am realizing it is better to stick with what the manufacturer has their system set up for.
Yes I agree on the hornets nest but when I research 35's, it is filled with regret. Everyone wishes they would have just gone straight to 37's. My plan is to do the lift and tires, gusset and truss, regear, front driveshaft, and then start to do stuff as it needs it. If you go with the run it until it brakes and then fix it method, my girlfriend can't say no to upgrading the parts

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I also do not wheel at all at this point but the idea is to build it up and start to wheel it. So I am not doing anything hardcore by any stretch of the imagination. I know that does not mean that stuff can't break but it won't be getting the abuse that some others might put it through. I also realize it is a lot of money for a mall crawler (at this point anyway) but eventually once everything gets where I want it, it will get wheeled.