The point is, you try and keep things as simple as possible. You don't want complex sh!t on the trail..if we wanted complex, we'd be driving Land Rovers (bazzzzzing) and the OEM stuff is tried and true. So, if you want 35" tires, get your 35" tires and then do what you need to do to let them cycle, which thankfully on a JK requires nothing but flat fenders, and as luck would have it, the best flat fenders are also free, since your jeep came with 4 of them....just need to give them a trim. Get a set of EVO skids to protect your bowels, and go enjoy the outdoors, and use the money you saved from the suspension on a nice ARB fridge and fuel for your journey. After you put a bunch of miles on trails on your rig, you'll know exactly what you need, what you want, and what you don't want. You'll also be very happy that you'll have excellent geometry (since you didn't mess with your steering), no driveshaft issues, no EVAP being too close to the DS and need to move it, no exhaust crossover problems, etc. Since you're in cali, swing by ORE and have them weld on some C gussets for a little insurance, a nice set of their sliders, and a slap on the ass and you'll be more trail ready than you would be with a 3.5" lift, and happier.
Thanks for the info.. I've been out of the country most of the year so it's been hard to get any progress going, but I was able to get some 17x9s and 33" toyo's installed while I was home. With that set up, I already either rubbed my front wheel wells, or hit my bump stops.. don't really remember. So I'm thinking about an EVO leveling kit and Fox 2.0 Perf Series shocks to go along.. I should be alright with everything else as far as geometry, etc (other than some possible brake line extensions and maybe some stop extensions) yeah? Eventually, I want to get bumpers and winch.. but I can always swap that rear EVO spacer for a stiffer coil if need be to support the weight.